more than one child

[Danielle]

i think its great to have more than one child,, i have a boy and girl, and they love eaxh other soo much, i really beleive that children need to experince the sibling love, they fight sometimes, but for the most part, they enjoy each others company!!

[wahm2my2boys]

Sometimes I think it would be much easier to only have one child, but it wouldn't be near as much fun.  I have 2 boys ages, 2 years and 3 months apart in age.  They fight sometimes too, but they have soooo much fun playing together!

[Danielle]

they r going to fight that for sure but having one of each is a wonderful experience..i wan t another child, a boy  boys are wonderful

[jamajofe]

I have girl, girl, boy, boy.  They love spending time with each other. When the boys were younger they fought. They girls never did.

[Danielle]

really?? me and my sister fought constantly me and my brother did not, i guess it depends on each childs personality

[grocerymama]

My cousin was an only child, but she had my sister and I. So she is ike a sister to us and we are still very close. I bet there's pros and cons to both!
I have three and love it - even though they do fight 

[Danielle]

  grocerymamma, good to know that there are some honest moms out there... we don't like for children to fight, but it happens, if they didn't i would think there was something very wrong with them!!lol  kids are not perfect, and moms aren't either... mine are fighting as we speak!!

[MommyAnna]

I was an only child, and hated it!  Now I have two boys and hope that they will have a close relationship when they are older.   Of course I expect them to fight, that's just part of living in close quarters with somebody.  My husband and I love each other, but we fight occasionally.    Can't expect the kids to show more maturity than us!

[Danielle]

YES SOO TRUE!! THANKS FOR AGREEING WITH ME!!

[lonestar818]

I have three boys - the first two are twins, and their little brother is 3 1/2 yrs younger.  I was a little worried that the age gap might be a problem, with the two older ones being so close already, but they have really accepted him as one of the guys .  The three of them all get along well together (most of the time, lol) and play pretty well together.  They all have similar interests (trains, planets, and he likes to watch them play video games) so that helps!

[Dustybug]

I have two kids and they are 22 months apart.  My daughter is 2 and my son just turned 6 months.  They aren't big enough to fight or play together just yet, but I can't wait until they are! lol.  My brother and I are 9 years apart and just can't relate to each other very well. I plan to have one more when my son gets near turning two.

[Danielle]

  YOU GO GIRL!! I WANT ANOTHER SOOO BAD TRYING TO TALK MY HUSBAND INTO IT!!

[Mom2ConnorRyan]

I have one and that is enough for now.  My husband and I have not decided whether to have anymore.  i think it is up to the couple.  We have decided one thing when he turns five we will make the final decision.  As of right now we are enjoying our son and to us we are complete as a family.  I had a great pregnancy but not quite ready to go back there again. 

[Danielle]

candance you are smart..enjoying the one you have wait a couple of years, but i do suggest having at least one more the love between siblings is indescrible.. its a special bond, but of course it is a personal decision

[grocerymama]

Candace you have time for sure. My kids are all five years apart. From youngest (4 mos) to my oldest (ten years). They can have their own special bond. The oldest can take her younger sister shopping someday. It's just how it worked out for us.